But deep down? He's feeling the guilt for going over budget on his very cool plastic doll. (And for all you "Star Wars" fans, I apologize for my poor job of channeling my inner sci-fi geek. Forgive me, you will?)
The truth is that very rarely is something legitimately splurge-worthy. But when those occasions present themselves, you should be able to splurge your heart out without feeling a drop of guilt. So without further bad "Star Wars" figurine hypotheticals, here are five splurge-worthy moments to anticipate:
Purchasing it will help make you money. If you have a solid framework for making money from an item,
When your FSA deadline is just around the corner. American workers lost millions of dollars last week thanks to use-it-or-lose-it flexible spending accounts. While the tax advantage that comes with an FSA is pretty sweet, if you don't use that money by the end of the year, it dies and goes to money heaven. (Actually, it's worse than that: It goes back to your employer!) So you best use that money while you can. You might not normally consider spending a lot on a blood-pressure monitor or an electric nursing pump. But using your FSA account, you could buy the item and resell it online. Or you could become the owner of a really nice blood-pressure monitor that's the envy of all the neighbors. Either way, it's better than letting the money go to waste. You may even still have time to spend that cash: Some companies give employees a two-and-a-half-month grace period after the year ends to use up their FSA dollars. You may just have some time left to splurge!
(Next year, though, it may not be so bad. The Treasury this fall changed the rules on FSAs: Companies are now allowed to let you carry $500 over into the next year -- but it's up to your employer to make that benefit available to you.)
Buying an everyday item in bulk for cheap. Optimizing on a deal is totally worth it if it's a non-perishable item that you'll be buying in the future anyway. Some of these items include diapers, wipes, soap (can you tell there's a dirty little toddler running amok in our house?), shampoo, toilet paper, paper towels, canned food essentials, etc. You get the idea. For some reason, many people (including me) have a really hard time laying down a bunch of dough all at once. They'd rather spend $30 each month rather than $200 in one transaction for the entire year because it feels like less of a blow. But in this case, splurging is the smarter move.
Buying quality Is a better investment. When faced with buying two similar items, the more wallet-friendly option may seem like the right choice at first glance. And many times it is. But sometimes the more expensive item is cheaper in the long run because it'll last longer. At the beginning of our marriage, Johnny and I learned the hard way that a $30 particle-board table has a short lifespan. So rather than buy a $30 table every couple of years, we splurged on a solid wood table that will last forever, with the occasional fresh coat of paint. Other times to consider quality are when you're buying cars, electronics, and appliances. So the next time you scoff at a $20 light bulb that lasts several years, you might want to think twice.
Budgeting for the item in advance. An around-the-world cruise might look like a splurge to some. But if you've saved up each month for three years, it's in your budget, and you can make it work, that's well within the realm of a healthy splurge. Any item can go from not-splurge-worthy to definitely-splurge-worthy if it's been calculated and planned out within a balanced budget -- no matter how seemingly unnecessary the item. We work hard, and we all deserve a good, planned splurge every once in a while. Yes, even your Star Wars-obsessed coworker who's now the proud owner of another plastic doll.
Joanna and Johnny are the writing duo behind OurFreakingBudget.com, a personal finance blog documenting the joys, pains and realities of living on a budget.