Inheriting a Windfall: How to Handle Sudden Wealth

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By Deborah Nason, Special to

You've received an inheritance. That's great. But it's not as simple as just cashing the check.
How to handle a sudden windfall is an issue many of us may one day face, as some 30 percent of U.S. households will probably inherit wealth, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics.

And this percentage may increase in the future. Nearly two-thirds of people over age 60 expect to leave an inheritance to their kids, according to personal-finance website Moreover, the Center for Retirement Research at Boston College has found that two-thirds of baby boomer households are likely to inherit a median amount of $64,000.

When you inherit, the best thing to do in the beginning may be ... nothing, say financial advisors.

"We coach clients to enter a 'decision-free zone,' [and] we stay aware of their emotional states and their ability to make decisions," said certified financial planner Stephen O. Wright, an associate at financial-planning services firm the Enrichment Group and a former pastor.

"There's a lot of analysis and planning," he added. "Combine that with the grieving process [and] a lot of counseling work that goes along with it."

The Enrichment Group helps clients "slow down," said Wright, by providing what he termed a "survivor checklist":

Now (next 2 months): Contact Social Security Administration and Dept. of Veteran Affairs; order death certificates; make funeral arrangements

Soon (2 to 6 months ahead): Open an individual checking account; contact life insurance company; close joint credit cards; pay bills

Later (6 months to 1 year ahead): If ready, start thinking about gifting money, moving, developing an investment plan, etc.

New heirs can get easily overwhelmed. One such woman, a 60-year-old scientist from southern California who wished to remain anonymous, had never managed a large sum of money before inheriting several million dollars from her father in 1999.

"It took me six years to move the assets from my father's bank," she said. "My dad had died, and I didn't want to think about it."

Life events such as inheritances are big transitions that require change management. - Susan Bradley, Sudden Money Institute

Daunted at first by the cost of using a financial consultant, she eventually realized it was essential.

"It would be a full-time job-and more, for me-not only to learn about investing but to do it," she added.

Inheritors who are not used to managing large amounts of money can be victims of their own enthusiasm and emotions, said Robin Young, certified financial planner and owner of Northstar Financial Planning.

Young cited the case of one client, a divorced woman of modest means with grown children, who learned she would be inheriting a substantial amount of money. "When her mother died, one of her reactions to her newfound wealth was to make promises of loans and gifts to friends and family," Young said.

In order to slow down the process and protect her client from her own rash decisions, Young drafted the following letter for her to send to friends and family:

"My financial advisor has advised me not to make any unnecessary decisions until I have gone through the lengthy process of organizing and determining what my financial situation will look like long-term. Managing this transition is much harder than it looks from the outside. I am relieved to be going slowly in the beginning."

"Life events such as inheritances are big transitions that require change management," said Susan Bradley, a certified financial planner and founder of the Sudden Money Institute.

"Adaptation takes an average of five years, and people go through three stages," she said. The stages, according to Bradley, are:

End of status quo: "The way your finances used to run have changed, [and] there's new terminology and new responsibilities to take on," Bradley said. "This new phase of your life causes changes in relationships and emotions, especially for couples."

She pointed to a middle-aged married client who inherited money from her mother. The client put some of the funds in a common marital pool, for vacations with her spouse and home improvements, but kept the balance in her name only. "It gave her a new sense of freedom," Bradley said.

Passage: This phase takes years, according to Bradley. "It's a time to reinvent yourself, to explore without making commitments," she said. "My client started thinking about new career opportunities and early retirement."

For their part, Anne Ellinger and her husband, Christopher-co-founders of Bolder Giving, a nonprofit that encourages donors to give more generously-took a measured approach when Christopher inherited $250,000 back in 1981. "We were frightened by the responsibility," she said.

Her husband, then age 24, put the funds into socially responsible investments, waited three years before making any big decisions, and developed Giving Communities, a resource to help like-minded inheritors sort through common issues.

New normal: You've entered this phase when you stop wondering, "What do I do now?"

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Deborah Nason's article is very helpful, in fact just reading it makes you feel more organized and more objective. My wife went through the process when her mother passed, even though they weren't terribly close when she was alive
-- it was still a shock and it upset her a great deal, certainly did not put her in an emotional state where she wanted to make any important financial decisions.
I went through it as well. We could have used this article awhile back when we went through those profound deaths had to make financial decisions associated with inheritances.

However, one item is missing from Ms. Nason's excellent -- namely the fact that probate is in itself a cooling off period, if the inheritance is not in trust. Probate easily take 10, 12, 15 months, and often longer. If you're expecting a decent sized inheritance you have a lot of time to investigate good advice and investment opportunities.

Thousands of heirs take advantage of that legal process every year and get a probate an advance on their expected inheritance. An inheritance advance, or probate loan, is an opportunity to access now, what is going to be yours in the near future. People with a trust often get an inheritance loan on the trust.

It's not for everyone, but it works for a lot of people in this position. With the right firm, inheritance loans usually take no more than 2 or 3 days, after your paperwork has been received. Reliable sites to look at are, or, or the well known, located in SoCal. Again, with the right company, an inheritance advance is fast, secure, doesn't involve monthly payments, up-front fees, reams of paperwork, or microscopic attention to your job status and finances. You don't need triple A credit to get approved. An important factor for me, believe me. Or, you can just search for inheritance loans, for an inheritance advance, a probate loan, an heir advance, or probate advance.

For those who don't need a cooling off period, who want to get going on investment opportunities, you don't have to wait for a year or more to assemble your newly found funds.

December 22 2014 at 11:09 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

Most people, given a sudden cash influx, will promptly p*** it away.

November 29 2013 at 8:28 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

At 64 years old, my Wife and I would spend the heck out of it. You can't live forever.

November 29 2013 at 6:03 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

Just to add, Tom gave very good advice.

November 29 2013 at 5:52 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

I have always been interested in the financial world and read a lot of financial publications. If I inherited a lot of money I would be like a kid in the candy store with stocks and mutual funds. Sure they fluctuate, but look at the long term. And if you have a large chunk of money to invest, consider Midwest farm land though we might be in a bubble right now. Also Reits, which are commercial real estate in share form. Most people should get a fee only financial advisor plus a trust attorney. You do go to a doctor, don't you?

November 29 2013 at 5:51 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
1 reply to lorepod's comment

You are right about investing in stocks, etc. I have invested since 1980 with about $1000 and have done very well between the 401k, 2 IRA accounts and a separate stock account and savings bonds. It pays to save and invest.

October 31 2014 at 12:27 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply

Something I will never have to worry about!!!!!!! What a relief.

November 29 2013 at 4:44 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
LA is Best

Obama has had no trouble spending sudden wealth that he collected from tax payers!

November 29 2013 at 3:24 PM Report abuse +4 rate up rate down Reply
Jive Turkey

What about putting the money in cd?

November 29 2013 at 12:40 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply

I just thought I'd throw this in: When you get death certificates, make sure and get lots of certified copies from the originator of the certificates right off the bat, because every person and company you deal with is going to have to have their own, certified copy, and it's a real hassle trying to get them even a short time following the death.

November 29 2013 at 11:13 AM Report abuse +3 rate up rate down Reply

Best way to keep money ?...Don't tell anyone you have any.....Best way to double your money ?....take it out of your pocket and fold it in half.....put back into pocket !...And, NEVER use credit cards.....what is in your all you can spend !....yup :>)

November 29 2013 at 9:49 AM Report abuse +4 rate up rate down Reply
1 reply to rkeeeballs's comment

You are absolutely right and Brilliant. My mom was a financial advisor who hated the stock market. She thought it was like going out and gambling your money away. She also said best way to keep and double your money was to fold it in half and put it back in your pocket. She loved Municiple bonds. Triple tax free, double A rated and gauranteed. Happy Investing.

November 29 2013 at 5:14 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply