Six Tips on How to Avoid Squandering a Financial Windfall

lynnette khalfani-coxWhat would you do if you received a sudden financial windfall, like winning the lottery, getting a big inheritance or coming into an unexpected pile of cash?

Unfortunately, many windfall recipients squander their money, going on reckless spending sprees or mismanaging their finances.

Jennifer E*. of California is determined not to let that happen to her.

She just won $100,000 from Capital One in the bank's Big Payoff Sweepstakes.

I partnered with Capital One to provide financial literacy education to participants in the Sweepstakes, as well as to offer some one-on-one coaching to the winner of the Big Payoff. So I had an opportunity to coach Jennifer and give her some tips on what to do with her winnings, based on her unique circumstances.To her credit, Jennifer also consulted her accountant -- which is always a wise move when a lot of money falls into your lap. Based on all the guidance she's received thus far, Jennifer plans to:

  • set aside money to pay the taxes on her winnings;
  • pay off her credit card debt;
  • increase her savings;
  • and perhaps use some of her windfall as a down payment on new home

Smart strategies all around, I'd say.

Not everyone has that kind of financial discipline. But Jennifer, a married mother of three teenagers, told me: "I've always been a very frugal person. So this is a very nice bonus for us."

Should you come into a huge chunk of money, here are six tips to follow to handle that financial windfall wisely:

1. Do Nothing For a While

If you get a particularly large windfall -- like a six or seven-figure payout -- you might be tempted to take major steps, such as making a very expensive purchase, offering a huge donation to your favorite charity, or even investing a large portion of money in the stock market.

But experts warn against hastily doing anything with a financial windfall. Instead, take at least a few weeks, preferably even a few months, before making any significant economic decisions.

"Don't make any life changing decisions for at least the first six months such as quitting your job or moving," recommends Mark Cortazzo, a Certified Financial Planner and founder of MACRO Consulting Group in Parsippany, NJ. He adds: "Don't spend more than 10% of the total lump sum in the first 12 months."

But that's not to say you can't have fun -- just do it in moderation.

2. Enjoy Yourself -- Within Reasonable Boundaries

Diahann Lassus is a Certified Financial Planner and the president and co-founder of Lassus Wherley, a fee-only wealth management firm headquartered in New Providence, NJ.

She thinks it's a bad idea for windfall recipients to put themselves into a financial straight-jacket and never enjoy the money. Instead, she says: "Plan on taking some percent of it, maybe up to 5% or so depending on the size of the windfall, and then just go out and have fun to get that out of your system."

Afterwards, Lassus says, you should get serious thinking about the longer-term opportunities your windfall could provide.

Russell Graves, the Executive Director of Consumer Credit and Budget Counseling in Marmora, NJ, agrees. His non-profit financial counseling agency assists individuals and families who are having difficulty with debt of all kinds.

And even for people who are cash-strapped and struggling with big bills, Graves thinks a windfall should be cause for at least a modest celebration.

"Winning the lottery or getting a big financial windfall is something you should be able to enjoy a bit," Graves says. "So I always recommend that people take 10% of any winnings and have fun with it. But the other 90% should go to paying down debt or saving money."

3. Put Your Financial Windfall Into Perspective

Once you have your fun with a windfall, it's time to put your newly acquired money into perspective. "People often think, 'I'm getting all this money and I'm going to be rich,' but that's often not the case," Lassus says.

So consider this question: How much money are you really working with? For example: $500,000 is a huge sum of money, but it's a far cry from $5 million. The latter would be enough for most people to retire on quite comfortably. But depending on your age, personal goals and current levels of savings and debt, $500,000 might not be a sufficient nest egg to ensure a secure retirement.

Whatever the case, you should also think about what you want the money to do for you.

"Will it pay for your kids' education, pay down your mortgage, or pay for next year's vacation?" Lassus asks. Bottom line: consider what are the critical goals you have, and determine how the money can help you meet those goals.

4. Set Up a Separate Account

When big money comes your way, it's easy to focus on one aspect of the money: how to spend it. But you should also think about where you'll keep it. Experts say it's best to separate it from all your other accounts -- especially your checking account.

"Get it out of your checking account and put it into a special savings or brokerage account so that it's treated separated," Lassus says, "because we all know what happens to our checking account dollars. That money kind of goes into a black hole and gets more quickly spent."

5. Get Professional Tax and Financial Advice

Numerous financial complexities will likely come into play if you're the recipient of a large financial windfall: everything from gift taxes to income taxes, estate issues and more. Therefore, it's definitely advisable to seek out some professional advice concerning properly accounting for your cash, managing it wisely and using it to build wealth.

You may need to establish a trust, secure special type of life insurance, or perhaps get basic documents like a will created to make sure your beneficiaries are provided for in the event of your death.

For all these reasons and more, if you get a windfall don't be penny wise and pound foolish, and mistakenly think that it would be a "waste" of money to hire a qualified CFP or financial adviser for help and advice.

"Be aware of the tax impacts of all large transactions," says Cortazzo, the Parsippany, NJ CFP. "What you have in gross dollars and what you net after taxes can be a very different number," he adds, "and if you are budgeting based on gross amount, there can be a big shock when the tax bill comes due."

6. Put a Buffer Between You and Family/Friends

Lastly, try to avoid becoming a human ATM machine for those around you.

As anyone who has come into sudden wealth can attest, the act of receiving a huge pile of money often leads to requests for financial gifts or "loans" from needy family members and friends -- including some relatives you didn't even know you had.

Because many of us don't know how to establish financial boundaries with relatives and friends, it can be emotionally taxing to deal with requests for money, especially those that come with hard luck tales or sad sob stories about how another person got into a financial bind.

Still, it's important for windfall recipients to shield themselves from a constant stream of people requesting handouts. Otherwise, your kindness can be exploited. You may wind up making unwise economic choices due to your own feelings of guilt, or due to the emotional pressure and manipulation exerted by others. Either way, you may later resent your generosity, feeling that you squandered money by giving it away so freely.

One way to avoid this problem is to have a trusted third-party serve as an intermediary to handle all requests for money. This person can be a close, responsible family member, or a neutral, financial adviser who can offer you some perspective.

Winning money, inheriting assets or somehow reaping a big financial windfall can seem like a dream come true. But if the money is too quickly spent or is just flat-out mismanaged, even hitting a multi-million dollar lottery jackpot can become a bittersweet event.

Editor's Note: *Only Jennifer's first name is being provided to protect her privacy.

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vernsmaria

Also better check out those financial advisors/professional planners. If you're not careful they'll be the one with the windfall while you'll be wondering how you got broke.

December 02 2013 at 3:39 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
MR MAN

WHERE WERE YOU WHEN I NEEDED YOU ?

September 18 2013 at 7:45 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
LadyRoss

I can only hope and pray that a financial blessing is headed my way. I I would give to God first and foremost and pray for wisdom and guidance while the remaining monies goes into another account that doesn't have easy access like my primary checking account. Would at least like to get out of debt and take a cruise. $500,00.00 would be more than enough to get out debt leaving a little something left over..........................Oh the peace.

June 03 2013 at 7:39 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
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ondagate

1) the more money people get the more they want.
2) God does not need your money, so keep it.
3) it's what people do with money that shows who they are?
4) you sound like you would spend your way back to debt.

June 15 2013 at 11:44 PM Report abuse +1 rate up rate down Reply
beauchamprealty

It is amazing to me that in both cases neither expressed giving anything to God! The very first 10% would be cheerfully given as tithe into our local storehouse! We would certainly pray for the Lord's guidance on the rest! I believe God would lead us to the person of his choosing to be a financial expert for us. He has already promised that me and my husband would be employing families, paying them a living wage, providing benefits and paid vacations. This would empower them! We would assist some people to become entrepreneurs, others in paying college tuition, some in acquiring home ownership and blessing some who are already financially well!

August 15 2013 at 3:06 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
brennemanbelkin

Wouldn't mind being put o the test.

June 02 2013 at 6:47 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
jazzeerun

The friends, relatives and relationships you have before your windfall (lottery, inheritance, etc) should be the one's you maintain after your windfall -- just maintain a low profile..

My thoughts: people naturally tend to have empathy for the common, everyday Joe/Joan but little or no compassion for the affluent.

June 01 2013 at 11:03 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
white41990

I dont lend charity, not my problem you need money I tell those who ask me for it

June 01 2013 at 12:59 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
Mr. Kaad

you ask too many personal questions.

May 31 2013 at 3:30 PM Report abuse -1 rate up rate down Reply
mbchakey

Good advice...i'll remember...

May 20 2013 at 11:37 AM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply
joe654b

WHAT IS THE ADVISE FOR HITTING THE REALLY BIG LOTTERY, AND BEING OFFERED THE CHOICE OF A MUCH REDUCED PRIZE NOW [LUMP SUM], OR THE FULL AMOUNT DIVIDED OVER MANY YEARS?

May 18 2013 at 10:51 PM Report abuse -1 rate up rate down Reply
3 replies to joe654b's comment
hshmaple

Very interesting. Money brings out the best new friends

May 18 2013 at 9:39 PM Report abuse rate up rate down Reply